Actually Nomad, beauty contest are very big in the southern
Bible belt. These womanless contests are very common fund raiser events! New
Orleans is not that far and folks flock there. In the south the guys just had
to figure a way to get into some of that beauty contest action so they started
their own contest. All the bad things you have ever heard about the south are
true! They just like to keep the great stuff a secret to discourage unwanted
crowds. That's true too. While strangers are intriguing and welcome they do not
really want these folks to homestead. It is amazingly peaceful, quiet and
uncrowded here in this often referred to as a “poor” state.
Wind, rain and drought can harm the south, but
normally the weather can be really a gift much of the year. There are some
amazing people from the state I live in these days and from my home state
Kentucky too. Here is an interesting list though I can see many are left off of
it.
http://www.worldatlas.com/webimage/countrys/namerica/usstates/msfamous.htm.......here's
a more inclusive list of mostly living folks from this state.. http://www.imdb.com/search/name?birth_place=Mississippi,+USA
Gayness may not be encouraged in the south, but that doesn't
mean southern folks can’t have fun living out of character for a moment.
Nothing is beyond the reach of guys that can chew tobacco and actually be proud
of it 70 or 80 years after it has been nationally fashionable! The fact that
spittoons are only antiques because chewing went out of fashion with people
that died off 30 years ago doesn’t matters little. So a drag contest on a
school stage really isn’t a big deal. I
don’t think these womanless shows are anything like a drag contest among men
that actually like dressing up as women. They had/have these shows here and
sometimes I think these womanless beauty shows are more of insult to women,
then a spoof on gayness, as though it is more impressive to get attention
tackling a man you know on a field of grass than dressing up like a princess. It
is usually the sports guys that perform in these events. I think it would be
fairer to allow these guys to dress up as cheerleader at real beauty contests
to “support” the real ladies that know what they are doing. That is after all
what is offered to the girls at the guys events. They could even cheer at the
girls sporting events. Maybe it is just
an allowable way for the super macho to show their closest feminine side.
I don’t think there
are fewer gay people in the south then most places and in spite of what the
outside world thinks and the talk you will hear locally supports. The local gay population is often semi-in—the
–closet, but usually known and accepted as part of the local community. When I
think of who around here is or might be gay, I can honestly say I don’t think
any of us here would want these people anywhere but here, whether we agree with
their life styles or not. We always have one of the highest numbers of teen
births in the nation, huge numbers of single parent homes and multiple marriage
homes and all sorts of other living arrangements. The southerner likes to feel
and think they are conservative, old fashion and traditional when in truth that
is as rare here as most places these days. The south is full of contradictions.
This is one of the poorest states but one of the most giving per capita in the
country and you will find people here lining up and doing fund raisers all the
time to help those less fortunate locally and around the world. I live in a
town of 3,000 and we have a very fine local community theater newly finished
and lately a recording studio blues guys are hanging around the Rock and Swing
recording studio on main street …I cannot tell you how much that amazes me and
I have lived in and visited many places.…the art and culture in this area is awesome
and if the general public rather than the specialized art community and the
elite ever wake up to that the sky is the limit for these crazy, amazing,
contradictory folks. We have had Cirque du Soleil, traveling Broadway, Prairie
Home Companion, and many, many other events within 20 minute driving distance,
Major Russian, Spanish and Baroque Exhibits and famous artist exhibits within
the state a one man Andrew Wyeth exhibit shocked me for a place like
Mississippi and he even en came and sit in the gallery to see the reactions to
his work. We have a local improve comedy
group, basically a comment club, a professional symphony, numerous very active
community theater groups I can think of at least 4 within in a 50 minute drive
at 2 more if you add 15 or 30 minutes, an active film making group, commission
and fest. Once or twice a year professional/amateur ballet that is
beautiful. This is not what I thought I
would find when headed to Mississippi and it is all well-kept state secrets as
far as I can tell.
The State is
corrupted with ALEC nearly through and through at the moment but they are
becoming wise to that slowly and I trust will take care of it. The people here
are a wonderful fascinating mix of the contradictive, natural state of being
human, just like every other place I have been. What I love and share in common
is they collectively seem amazed at the simple things and the natural beauty of
the world and exhibit their love and concern toward each other and outwardly,
as they often head off on “Missions” in person or by sending their often
limited funds, to build house and give care to others less fortunate then they
have been. Sometimes I want to pinch folks here and say ‘wake up” because you
are voting and supporting attitudes you really don’t live or want deep
down….selfish, money first, driven policy is not for loving people like you
folks.